Black folk say it too often; however are surprised when the word freely flows from the mouths of other races. The N-word was one used behind closed doors, among our people, and utilized to take the sting from tool intended to scorch souls. I remember years ago, was the N-word was only uttered by that one aunt, or by that one uncle who toyed in the street. Now it’s used openly and with full acceptance.
It’s a habit that’s so poorly intwined in black American culture that we gave it to white Americans, immigrants Africans, Caribbeans, and even Hispanics to utilize as a verbal weapon. Black folk allowed that, foolishly. We took something away from ourselves and gave as armament for others to use against us. Blame the streets, blame rappers, blame whomever you want; the problem is still ours alone.
But there is something that can be done. We can check the ones who don’t look like us who say the word freely. We can refrain from saying it among ourselves if an unfamiliar face is in our circle. Dare others to say the N-word. If necessary, keep the word cozy and intimate where we first gave it power. Or simply have the strength to replace it with the word “brother” or “sister.” There’s no need for others to believe that they have any power over us. Certainly, they know that they don’t, so why should they hope otherwise.
This is the truth.
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